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1. IMAGINE YOUR PERFECT WEDDING
Before you announce to the entire world that you are
engaged and everyone assumes that they are invited to your wedding, we suggest
that you sit down with your fianc?and discuss the date, time, size, formality
and style of your wedding -- things that really reflect your tastes as a couple.
2. PUTTING TOGETHER YOUR GUEST LIST
What's a party without the guests? Remember that many
of your guests will have a spouse or significant other and will count for
two people. Also keep in mind that the more people you invite, the more expensive
your wedding will be.
One smart planning tip is to have a "must-have" A-list,
and a "would-like-to-include" B-list, and mail your invitations early. If
A-list guests can't make it, you can then mail out invitations to B-list guests
and they won't feel like last minute additions.
3. YOUR BUDGET
The fact is, all that wedding glamour and glitter costs
money, and setting a realistic wedding budget now is going to save you from
a nasty shock on your wedding day. So take out that calculator, call up your
folks and decide on a realistic budget. Before you start number crunching,
set your priorities. Are your guests more important, or the location? Once
you know what elements you can't live without, you'll have a much clearer
idea of how to allocate your money. Then use our Budget Tool to give you an
estimate of how much to spend on each category.
4. SET YOUR PLANNING NOTEBOOK
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Remember, pictures tell a thousand words. The best gift
you can give yourself is a Polaroid camera with plenty of film. You never
know what item may inspire you for flowers, favors or any other wedding accessories.
Also purchase a three ring binder, dividers and plastic
business card holders to create a planning notebook. We suggest including
the following sections: Vendor Contact Information, Guests List, Bridal Ensemble,
Bridesmaids' Attire, Beauty, Groomsmen's Attire, Ceremony, Reception, Invitations
and Stationery, Menus and Beverages, Flowers and Dior, Guest Favors and Gifts,
Rentals, Music and Entertainment, Photo and Video, Transportation and Parking,
Miscellaneous, Checklists and Schedules, Budget/Payment Schedules, Invoices/Receipts,
Out-Of-Town Information and Notes. Don't forget an empty folder for photos
and magazine clippings.
5. SELECT YOUR DATE
Do you envision a thick blanket of snow outside as you
snuggle close to your new husband on the way to the reception? Or a warm summer's
night as you dance with your groom under the stars? Decide what time of year
you want to get married and select two tentative wedding dates -- it's important
to have a backup in case your first choice isn't available. Don't forget to
check your city calendar to make sure there's not a holiday or major sporting
event on your desired date - otherwise you and your guests may be competing
with fans for scare, or more expensive, hotel rooms and services
6. CHOOSE YOUR CEREMONY AND RECEPTION LOCATION
Wineries, zoos, botanical gardens -- let your imagination
run wild when selecting a wedding location. But remember, the best spot may
be one that is nearby and can accommodate your guest count. You'll want to
find out how many events each site hosts per day, and whether there are hidden
fees and charges.
7. SELECT YOUR WEDDING PARTY
She's been your best friend since kindergarten; it's
a no-brainer that you want her to stand up with you on your big day. But what
about everybody else? Ask valued friends or family to do a reading, be an
usher or oversee your guest book/escort card table. The point is, don't worry,
there is a role to play for everyone, and a way out of any awkward situation.
8. SHOP FOR THE DRESS
View over 20,000 photos of beautiful gowns and accessories
in our fashion section to find the dress that takes your breath away. Be aware
that most dress shops require at least six months to order your dress. Don't
forget to bring stockings, shoes, a strapless bra and a hair clip to your
appointments. Also bring any tear sheets or printouts from our fashion section
of those dresses you adore, so that the sales staff can get a sense of your
style. And now's the time to start a fitness program and get in shape to look
your best in that dream dress.
9. BOOK THE BASICS
Top wedding locations and vendors are booked as much
as a year in advance, so as soon as you've agreed on the type of wedding you
would like to have, run to make your reservations in the following order:
ceremony and reception locations, ceremony officiant, caterer, reception band,
photographer, florist, cake designer, videographer, stationer and finally,
the rental company. Reception sites go particularly fast, but many places
will allow you to put a courtesy "pencil hold" on the date for two weeks with
no deposit. Finding your ideal spot isn't easy, so if a site meets 80% of
your requirements, reserve it!
10. SET UP YOUR REGISTRY
In this shopping frenzy, remember that your guests are
going to want to buy presents for YOU. You'll enjoy the convenience of viewing
your registry and making changes any time, day or night. And, your guests
will be thrilled to have one place where they can find all your gift choices.
You can also create your own wedding website to share your engagement stories,
last-minute wedding details and get the word out about your registry. It's
fast and easy! Simply answer a few questions, pick a pattern and we'll handle
all the technical details.
SEAL IT ALL WITH A KISS
Remember that your fianc?still wants and needs time
to relax with you, without the stress of all the wedding details. Your engagement
period marks the start of your new life together, so take the time to enjoy
being a couple. And don't worry. With the help of WeddingChannel.com, it's
easy to plan the perfect wedding.
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